I am in a rather happy mood today...
First, I finally got to get out of the house today which means another opportunity to dress up which is rare. I went out to eat lunch with my sister, Vy who after being paid today in cash she happily was willing to pay for lunch. We ate steaks and spaghetti of course. I wore a little black tank wit a flowery skirt and my brown wedges. I think that's how you spell it
After a lunch date of laughing and regaining the "GIRL POWER" attitude.
See the thing is both of us got into relationships where the guys that doesn't know what he wants. I guess it's true what they say, girls do grow up faster than guys. We grow up and find out what we want from life, from love, from others way faster than guys.
Personally I have just gotten out of a one month relationship. I swear I have the one month curse and to humor myself I declared that when I find a guy who can stand me for 2 months I'm going to marry the lucky bastard. haha.
But yeah, my ex-love and me went way back but when both of you don't want the same thing, it's sorta impossible to be together and if you are together than someone's in denial.
I figure that life is short and I believe all women are beautiful and they should never settle for anything less than what they truly deserve.
Anyways, that got me thinking about how often after a breakup lots of women let themselves go because they're too caught up in memories and thoughts of him that they just don't have the strength to glam up anymore. They just sit and stare and every little thing remind them of HIM.
My friend once told me after my breakup that she realized I didn't dress up anymore because I always loved to dress up. I shrugged it off and told her it was because the weather was too hot to dress up.
Now I wasn't necessarily lying... I mean it IS like 105 degree in this hell aka RIVERSIDE, California but I had to admit that a part of me was thinking that I guess a part of me felt that while I was in the relationship, my boo loved me no matter what I looked like so I didn't feel like I had to dress up to impress anyone anymore, I just dressed up when he came to visit me. How pathetic. I know what you'r
but you got to admit
A lot of us dress to impress.
But is that necessarily bad?
Is that wrong to want to dress up because you know others are watching?
I don't think so. I mean in this society we dress for others, even if you say you're not.
Even if you dress up 90% for your own self esteem. there's that other 10%.
But personally I don't think anything is wrong with that.
Nothings wrong wit flaunting what you have and having a satisfaction in knowing people are loving it. haha
Anyways, I just thought I would look for some outfit for the ladies who had the strength to get out of relationships that you know just isn't gonna work. The ladies with the strength to blame no one but to smile and wish him the best of luck with his search for his right lady.
After a breakup, you don't have to dress slutty or anything to show off your assets
just play them up
be classy and sexy
show a little skin but still keep that class that convey a "I make my own money and I'm my own woman" attitude.
Or keep a "Fuck you" attitude. and go for tough. It works too with a great pair of shoes.
or wear a kute little dress that shows you have legs for daze. Let him see what he's missing and never gonna get back. ( I like to write cute wit a K. just makes it even kuter.)
You can still wear your sweats wit a little lace tank or bra underneath. A sexy bra can give you a great boost even if people can't see it. So go out and invest in a sexy bra. I actually bought one today for 5 bucks. woot woot.
oh and i like to thank my first commenter for my blog.
It really does motivate the blogger when she sees a comment
so thank u. ^__^
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